Monday, March 25, 2013

A Wonderful Reader Submission - Nomi Gets Her First Dog!

"CHANCES ARE"

BY NOMI BERGER

It always began with the same question.

"May I pat your dog?"

For two months, I’d been asking this of every dog owner I met on my early morning, fall walks around the reservoir.

If the answer was "yes", I'd smile my widest smile and bend to stroke the top of yet another warm and furry head.

"Do you have a dog?" I'd be asked in return.

"No," I'd reply. "I'm just living vicariously."

Was it my imagination, or were the looks I'd receive slightly sad, almost pitying?

As a child growing up in a highly allergic family, I'd never owned a pet.

As a woman with a successful career and an active social and cultural life, having a pet had never crossed my mind.

Then, in late middle age, I'd found myself with no family, no career (due to the diagnosis of a chronic neuromuscular disease), and a life of increasing pain and decreasing mobility.

In an effort to stay limber, I'd begun taking long walks through the city.

But as time passed, and my body grew stiffer and more resistant to the concrete sidewalks, I'd turned instead to the softer earth paths of the reservoir.

It was there that I'd discovered a delightful and unexpected diversion:

Some of the dogs were on leashes, bouncing or plodding, sprinting or chugging, alongside their owners. Others were off leash, barking as they chased after squirrels or raced to catch bright rubber balls and frayed plastic

Their owners chatted easily among themselves as they strode together in pairs and in groups, calling out a cheerful "morning" to everyone they passed -- even solitary figures like me.

Oh, how I'd envied them.

Dogs and owners alike.

I'd envied their closeness. Their unique relationships. Their shared experiences. They were like privileged members of an exclusive club. Bound by mutual love and loyalty and respect.

Suddenly, I wanted to be part of that club.

Throughout the winter, as my pain grew worse and my walks grew shorter, I immersed myself in all things dog. I watched every dog program on TV, even the reruns. I memorized the names of every dog breed recognized by the Westminster Kennel Club. I wept for every dog on every online rescue site.

By spring, I made up my mind.

I would adopt a dog.

One Sunday morning in early May, I found him.

A white chinese crested powderpuff, his pert, little face with its impossibly sweet expression, gazed out at me from the computer screen.

And I fell in love.

We met in the flesh the following day. And that evening, he was officially mine.

His name was Chance.

It couldn’t have been a more appropriate name. Needless to say, I didn’t change it.

In the days that followed, I was stunned by the depth of my love for him.

It was a love unlike anything I'd ever felt before. Fierce and protective.

So intense that it made my chest ache and brought tears to my eyes.

With him came a new routine, a broadening of my narrow world. Each morning, I'd open the baby gate to the empty storage closet I'd turned into his bedroom (complete with doggie wallpaper, a shelf lined with dog care products and whimsical, carved wooden dogs, and plush toys propped up on the floor) and there he'd be.

My reason for getting up every day. The perky, welcoming presence that dulled my pain for awhile. The tender, wriggling bundle of warmth that allowed me some temporary peace.

We were equal partners, Chance and I, starting together from scratch.

Just as I'd never walked a dog before, he'd never been walked before. His original owners had simply opened the back door of their house and let him out into their garden.

I bought a harness and leash, and began our mutual training by walking him up and down the corridor outside my apartment. We then progressed to the large, landscaped garden with its stone pathways off the third floor of the apartment building itself.

I ignored the new, gnawing pain in my right shoulder and focused solely on Chance. My goal: to become an expert dog walker, while making him an expert at being walked.

Finally, after weeks of practice, I felt secure enough to attempt our first trip to the reservoir two blocks away.

My heart was pounding as I led him across a busy street for the first time. I held my breath, then slowly released it, as we crossed the second street without incident.

This was it.

I straightened my back, tightened my grip on the leash and gave it a gentle tug. Then, woman and dog moved forward in perfect synch onto the grounds of the reservoir.

Out of the corner of my eye, I watched Chance churning along next to me on his short, woolly legs. As if sensing my gaze, he turned his head and glanced up at me. I mouthed a flurry of proud, happy kisses his way, then returned my attention to the path ahead.

A woman I'd seen on many of my walks was coming toward us, her black standard poodle, Eli, prancing regally beside her.

Once again, I held my breath.

"Morning," she said as she drew closer.

"Morning," I replied.

And then I waited. For her to notice.

Without breaking stride, she called back over her shoulder,

"You finally got a dog! Good for you."

I could actually feel my smile as it stretched across my face.

"Y-e-s!" My free fist pumped the air. "We did it, little dog, we did it!"

Chance's reward: not one, but three of his favourite liver treats, and a series of tight, ecstatic hugs.

After that, my spirits soared with every step we took along the reservoir's wide path.

"Morning," came the usual greeting, as dogs and owners passed us, in pairs

"Morning," I echoed, nearly giddy with excitement now.

I was oblivious to my body as I walked, longer and faster than I'd been able to walk in months.

I felt a space opening up around me, like a pair of welcoming arms.

Granting me access, at last, to that exclusive club, and issuing me a lifetime membership for two.

THE END

1 comment:

  1. Dear Nomi,
    Just to let you know how much I enjoyed reading your story. Actually, tears are running down my face, but for a change they are happy tears.

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